Those Who Make It Hard to Trust Making It Harder for Others

Those who make it hard to trust. I woke up this morning, haven’t gotten self all the way together, but I’m working on it. This thought hit me, so I’m doing a post real quick about it. Those who make it hard to trust. How do they do it, and why?

How is when you entrust people who you allow to get close to you. Thinking that, you will be able to trust them to not try to play mind games with you. To not show to be a let you down, and whatever the relationship may be, you can count on them to not disappoint you. Those who give you that good reason to feel not only good about the connection with them. But to also know that confiding in them also shows to be possible.

And then, you have those who somehow manage to show to do the opposite to all the above. Look, and sounds about right so far? Now, why people make it hard? Good question why do they? I think the last sentence in the paragraph just above shows to be one of many examples to how, and why.

Normally, it’s just because they just might not be use to having someone as solid as you! These type of people you have to watch out for, because they come in all different shapes, forms. Along with many mask they have to switch up faces with. Now, I’m not touching on and typing what I heard. I’m vibrating with my thoughts to you oon what I know, #canuimagine ?

Those Who Make It Hard to Trust By Doing the Obvious

Showing to do the obvious by some of what they do that appears to be very familiar. You’ve seen it before over and over again. That’s why it’s so obvious. But for them, it’s some wanna be slick shhh…. they’re trying to run oon you.

But why, why would they do such? Some of the one’s quick to say how much they love you, are some of the one’s who fit the script above. So my point is that, when this type of shhh… happens, it makes it harder for one to let anyone get close to you. Just making it much harder on others who actually deserve a chance and shot ya dig!

Yep, that’s me! And what I be finding self feeling due to? My own real experiences and dealings with people. See, the thing about this whole trust thing, and topic. The only way what I’m saying would matter to you, the reader is by whatever changes you’re showing to make in how you now see things.

Otherwise, you’re going to see no value and worth in what I’m saying. You’re going to care less, and just roll with accepting the unacceptable. The change first starts with you, only then will you now be able to check those who show. Not only that, but also the courage to challenge people to make corrections with themselves when necessary.

If Your Talk and Walk Don’t Mesh      

Some people will try hard as a mutha to con you with their sweet nothing talk, and I’m here to make it clear that. If their talk isn’t at least showing to align with their walk then it’s just talk. Your talk has to mesh with your walk. Hard?

Yes, but possible and that’s where actions come into play. If your actions (Walk) which will show change doesn’t reflect it then, I think you can now see the picture and point. If you’re working on self then, you can see and recognize people’s foolery from A Mile Away. As a matter of speaking, I was asked to collaborate on a song called: “A Mile Away“ some years ago.

The song was done with artists who I have a lot of love, respect for and truly appreciate. Whose talk has shown to align with they’re walk. The bottom-line is this, the only way you can truly know is through action. It does not feel good to move around having trust issues, and feel like nobody is trustworthy.

You gone have those fall-outs with those who are or were considered as friends. No one is perfect, and in the end, it’s all about growth, and awareness. At least this is how I look at it, and operate when it comes to my own life. I’ve been through a lot of it so now, I’m just making a little time to deliver some thoughts to ponder on.

EndNote

So on a end-note I’m really just doing what I do, and that’s give it to you raw and like no other. I have a better way of seeing it now when it comes to trust, and distrust. It takes way too much mind-time and energy to dis or not trust. Now, I try not to even bother with that.

I’m going to trust people for what they say, and their actions show. Does not trusting still apply? Sure it does, but now it holds less power and control when it comes to the programming involved. I get to choose to deal or not at all. This is what I encourage you, the reader to also think about when it comes to this. my saying is…. “Knowing the difference makes it.” 

I also want to make note to how important it is to read a few verses in the Holy Bible, which gives very vital information and awareness to ponder on. Take Psalms 1 18:8  for example and it says:

“It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.“

And there you have it, I may do another post in time about what it means to me, because there’s so much more to it. I guess you also get to see why this song called: “In God We Trust” I also featured on from The Battle of the Mind Album. So anyway, may something read, watched and listened to help you when facing situations that involve trust. Remember, everything changes when you start taking a hammer to the barriers that need to be broken Can U Imagine?

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Author: ZoORillah Midwest

For those who don't know. Adam is the Great when he's on, and off the mic. Creative conservative man/artist who doesn't just talk it, but also walks it. Spiritual renegade when it comes to the unjust practices exercised by those who show oppressive ways. Writer/rap recording artist and producer of digital media content. Setting the record straight where needed. Ready to find out why they call me, Adam the Great X aka ZooRillah Midwest? Input | Strategist | Adaptability | Realist | Connectiedness | Strategist | Adaptability